Due to commentary on my short story/poem “Final Goodbye to a Narcissist,” I have realized that it may be useful/helpful to someone else who is either dealing with a Narcissist or trying to heal from interactions with one, to see & or feel what my experiences were throughout my recovery process. I've always used my writing as a way to vent and or celebrate & even at times educate. I refer to the venting process as Alchemy because I can turn the worst experiences I've had into an art form through words which can heal, either because of releasing the pain, or because of it becoming sort of a comedy sketch. I had kind of Journalled on social media some of my lowest points & highest, of the rollercoaster ride I was on for the year that followed the break-up which was a months long process in itself.
I got the thought this morning to create a sort of “timeline” miniseries after reading a comment from
on Final Goodbye to a Narcissist, in hopes that if at the very least someone who's currently going through the healing, can see that there's a light at the end of the tunnel & it does get better, & No U Are Not Losing Your Mind. Maybe at best it will give someone the spark they need to break free & begin their healing. One thing I've learned throughout my dealings with the whole subject is, U are only in the prison or hell U allow yourself to be in, U are the Only one who can save U from it. This is not to be harsh, it's simply a reality, we live in a society which has taught us to place blame on Everyone else (whether it's for good or bad), we give away our own power, by way of giving away our responsibility to ourselves. Maybe reading my experiences can help someone, Take back their power & become a truly happy person again. To become a truly happy person, U have to go within, dig down deep, get your hands dirty by sticking them into that festering pus filled wound in the deep recesses of your soul, & cleanse it, remove the infection that created your low self esteem, your self inflicted disrespect & self loathing. It's a long process & no 2 people will travel the same exact path or timeline, however when it is done, U will be able to breathe again & realize U are finally a “whole” person who is also happy & at Peace. When U find yourself truly happy & peaceful then U can also find a healthy relationship (if &/or when u are ready to).Let me know your thoughts on this, as Always I am sending U All Love, Light, & Blessings for your Day🥰🥰💜💜☯️☯️🧿🧿
Very glad about that. Can't wait to read ;-)